“The most important thing to do if you find yourself in a hole is to stop digging.”
– Warren Buffet
Not believing what anybody told me about Neurodermatitis gave me the Insights that set me free.
About Suffering
There is nothing that amazes me more, than the amount of suffering I endured before I was ready to change.
I used to get sore muscles from scratching and yet I kept doing it for many years.
What I didn’t have at the time was the consciousness and insight that allowed me to understand what was going on inside myself.
So I kept doing all the painful things to myself until I had the understanding that gave me the freedom to do something else and my suffering ended.
And that is what happens all the time. People call me, they email and they are very excited to listen to what I have to say.
But very few people take action and take the time for the two free sessions that I offer.
I understand why!
I really do, I had the same experience.
What’s in the Way?
Imagine a person that is running away from something very frightening, something that threatens that person’s very existence.
In that moment the only thing that counts is survival. Nothing else…
Physical discomfort, pain, suffering… Nothing matters. Nothing can stop that person to achieve his/her goal of surviving.
How does that example relate to me, to you, to anybody who has Neurodermatitis?
For most of my life I had the very strong desire to be loved, to achieve, to have. I always had my mind fixed on things outside myself. My thinking told me I had to be perfect and extraordinary, with my career, financial success in order to be loved.
Because deep down I had the thought, that I was not good enough.
A thought that was deeply frightening and very painful. So painful that I felt I had to do whatever it takes to prove otherwise. And I was a doer, especially busy I was with my thinking.
I used to have a deeply troubling and stressful personal reality that I was playing in my own private movie theater in my head.
Until I saw the truth!
More about that later on…
The very first thing I tell every person who joins my program is to put their need for achievement, their goals on hold for at least three month.
Specifically I ask them to ignore every thought about having to achieve or do something other than just doing their job and following the program.
That thought is very frightening to every person I have worked with.
What you are about to read will most likely be very surprising and new to you. My goal is to inspire you to begin a journey. A journey to yourself.
You will realize that your suffering is not happening to you, it is rather happening through you.
It is a facet of the universal human problem of suffering that comes in many different forms.
You share a very common problem with maybe 40% of all people in this world. They have some kind of pain which can only be treated but not healed. At least that’s what most people believe.
And so they suffer silently not knowing what to do.
How it all began…
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